Best relationship advice to women from thai buddhist experiences girl

Sometimes i feel like i’m in an alternate dimension from how i was raised in America. Now i only date women who have this philosophy and who make the mans happiness a priority. Maybe i’ve just had bad experiences in the past but i’m so grateful now to know enough to filter out women who don’t make their mans happiness their top priority. i mean if they don’t make my happiness the priority then what the heck do i need them for. took me 37 years to finally nail this. but i suppose i had to struggle for all this time to be able to appreciate what i have now. it’s still deeply engrained in me from a young age when i was a scary smart intellectual who thought i would never have a girlfriend and the ones i did have treated me like absolute crap because i was such a nice gullible guy i got taken advantage of in every way.