Why You Keep Falling For The Bad Boys

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Today, we're talking about why you keep falling for the bad boy. It's kind of fascinating that a lot of women fall for the bad boy. This kind of guy tends to be young most of the time and most of the time, they don't have to be super successful but the point is that this kind of guy isn't approved by their families. This kind of guy is not that successful or completely outside their social circle.

Sometimes, this guy could be broke and the girl comes from an affluent family. And then it'll seem to the woman that the guy is unconventional and as a rebel rather than a broke dude who has no life. The woman will see this kind of things as good traits: the fact that he doesn't want to work 9 to 5 or the fact that he seels drugs--she'll see it as a part of his rebellious nature.

It's kind of like Rose being in love with Jack. This kind of woman had a strong relationship with a patriarchal father who was very strict. This father was critical and so she never felt like she was ever enough. She dreamed of rebelling but the discipline that her parents gave her caused her rebellion to be suppressed and it became a part of her rebellious animus. Rather than developing her own rebellious nature and integrating her rebellion into her character, she projects it onto a man who appears to be rebellious.

So how do you deal with this kind of things? One, if you noticed these projections then you must realize that you have to develop your own assertiveness and willingness to disobey order. You got to learn to develop that assertiveness and that comes through learning how to express your aggression and learning how to speak up for yourself.

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