22 Top 10 signs you are in a toxic relationship and need to break up

Top 10 signs you are in a toxic relationship and need to break up

1. There is no effort.
If you ever feel as if your loved one is not putting in enough effort then that is a big sign of you possibly being in a toxic relationship. Doing things separately sometimes is healthy, but as with all healthy things, too much is too much. When there is no effort to love you, spend time with you, share the things that are important to you, the relationship stops giving and starts taking too much.

2. When your partner decides what you can and cannot do!
Sometimes people can be possessive and that is not a great feeling for the other person in the relationship. If you find yourself in a situation where your partner is stopping you from going out with your friends or is constantly telling you what to do then you need to have a serious word with them!

3. Lack of trust.
This one is a big one because a relationship without trust is like a car without gas: You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere. If your partner doesn’t trust you then what’s the point of being in a relationship? Are you both just together for fun? Is it really fun if there's a lack of trust?

4. They refuse to compromise
Relationships require equal work and compromise in order to make both people happy and to show willingness to adapt and care for each other. However, if your partner is refusing to compromise on both big and little issues and always set in their ways, it shows they just string you along without thinking of you as a valued factor in the matter.

5. They are always putting themselves first and never you!
If you always find yourself in a situation where you are always coming last in the relationship then you need to re evaluate stuff, and you need to do it quickly! Before it’s too late. Trust me, you don’t want to feel like the second choice in a relationship, do you think your partner is putting their friends before you?

6. Missed expectations
A serious relationship is so much more than just dating. Whereas dating is spontaneous and mysterious and exciting, a serious relationship is supposed to evolve beyond that.Not only are you committing your love to your partner, but you are committing your time, your resources, and your entire life.And that means your life is no longer your life.

7. They do not pamper you!
Yes, it is always good to be pampered once in a while, both from a man and a woman! So if your partner doesn’t spoil you at least once a month like you most probably do for them then hit the pause button and think about whether you want to continue your life like that or not.

8. Verbal and mental abuse, passiveness!
Ask yourself this, when you get into arguments is your partner passive with you? If so, it’s not a good thing, it means they want to always be right and they are degrading you and making you feel horrible about yourself after a fight where you always jump to the conclusion that it is your fault all the time, that can really mess a person up!

9. They always find something wrong with you.
Those daily hateful words, the horrible side comments the “ do you really want to eat that cookie?” questions, they all point to red flags! Don’t you just want to wake up one day and look at yourself in the mirror and not see anything wrong with you?

10. You find yourself waiting for them to change.
I’m just going to say this straight up, they will never change, if you are at a point in your relationship where you think you can change them but they’ve not talked to you about it enough to actually change then don’t bother, I know it’s tough, especially if you are in a relationship that’s been going on for a while.

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