Are you guilty of these 5 dating “turn offs” that disgust men? | Attract Great Guys w/ Jason Silver

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I’m going to tell you the things that almost all high quality men hate – but would never tell you to your face. In fact, he might even be out the door before you ever realize these things are a problem.

So, what are they?

1. She’s Addicted to Her Phone

Nowadays, this is a pretty common habit among women and men.

Being addicted to your phone isn’t great for you for a variety of reasons. But in a relationship or dating scenario, it can be detrimental.

When it comes to dating, men and women are looking for someone who wants to enjoy special moments with them. This is how you build an emotional connection that goes beyond intimacy, which is super important if you want to be in a committed relationship.

The truth is, that our phone is a distraction. It allows us to escape the inevitable tension that results from the masculine/feminine dynamic. That tension is powerful and important to the relationship.

2. Keeping The “Passion” Alive with Toxic Behavior

No one likes it when someone picks a fight with them for no reason. This has a lot to do with insecurity in the relationship like we touched on earlier.

Sometimes women, and men, pick fights with their partner as a way to create a connection. They start fights because they want to keep the relationship “fiery” and “passionate.” They are afraid their love is going to fade away if things are too stable. They may mistake the peaceful connection for being boring or stale. But frankly, starting fights as a way to spark passion in a relationship is unhealthy.

Even healthy relationships go through ups and downs. But you don’t want to be the source of pain in your relationship. The man you’re dating will eventually recognize this toxic behavior and want to separate himself from it, which will mean leaving you completely.

3. Insecurity in the Relationship

Insecurity in the relationship means the woman he is dating is always looking to him for reassurance that he still likes her and wants to be with her.

If he’s showing you through his words and actions he wants to be with you, there is no need to ask him and nag him constantly for his attention and affection. When we approach relationships out of fear, we can’t be the confident, loving giving partner we need to be. The highest value relationships are the ones where people don’t NEED to be with the other person to survive. Instead, they are choosing to be with each other to thrive.

You want to be with someone who cherishes you and shows you they love you through their words and actions. Being with your partner should make you feel a sense of peace. You know he is there for you and loves you. Don’t stay in a relationship with a person who makes you feel insecure. And don’t be insecure in a relationship if he never gives you a reason to be.

4. Gossiping Like She’s in High School

The most loyal, considerate men won’t appreciate the excitement and entertainment of gossiping about others. There’s a few reasons why these guys won’t tolerate this behavior.

First of all, high quality men are too interesting and passionate to waste their precious time talking about other people’s failures or challenges. They have their own stories they’re more interested in discussing or living.

Second, when your cup is filled and you’re happy and fulfilled...you don’t want anyone to suffer. You don’t want them to suffer in life and you certainly don’t want to be spreading negative or embarrassing information about someone else.

And finally, smart men know the truth about gossipers. If someone will gossip to you about someone, they’ll gossip to someone about you.

5. Non-Stop Complaining

Men want their partner to be a source of light, positivity, and fun in their lives. If the woman they are dating complains about every little thing, it’s a big turn off.

You see, men usually try really hard to impress women. They want to be seen as a protector, a hunter, and provider. So if a man goes out of his way to impress his girlfriend by taking her to a nice dinner and then she says, “Wow, the service is so slow.” “I hate this wine” “My chicken is bland.” He’ll think to himself, “Why did I bother dropping all this money on dinner just to hear her complain? She’s so unappreciative.”

A high-quality guy desires an ambitious, successful woman who is ecstatic about her life and learns how to proactively act on challenges rather than complain about them. If you adopt this positive attitude, it will build his attraction for you and make him more likely to commit to you long-term because being around you is so refreshing and makes him feel energized.

Now that you know the common habits men find disgusting, you can avoid these behaviors to attract a high-quality guy into your life.