Dating. a Filipina 12 Long Distance Relationship Tips❤️
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Dating. a Filipina 12 Long Distance Relationship Tips.
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With Hundreds of Thousands of Filipina's Working Overseas, Long Distance Relationships Are very Common. But they definitely aren't easy. And can really do your head in. They'll require serious effort to make them last.
Try these 12 techniques to keep in touch, and help your relationship thrive...
#1. Establish Clear Guidelines for Contact.
#2. Discuss concerns as they arise.
#3. Discuss Your Relationship Goals.
#4. Watch some of the same movies and read some of the same books.
# 5. Get Creative.
Talking to each other every day can get boring, so it’s important to come up with creative ways to communicate.
Send your loved one a unique card or draw a picture.
Create a short video of your favorite moments together and get other family members to participate.
She'll love you for it. Sing a song and record it for your love.
# 6. Send things through the mail on occasion.
The element of surprise can help add serious sparks to a relationship.
Keep in mind that for the Philippines, you are way better off using a service like DHL. The postal service here can be abysmal to say the least. Online communication is best for daily interactions.
However, sending things through Snail Mail on occasion can add a fun factor to the relationship. Cards, letters, photos, and other gifts are easy to send.
#7. Visit each other as often as you can.
One of the best ways to maintain a long-distance relationship is to see each other as often as possible.
And yes, I do understand...
Depending on the distance between you, visits can be expensive.
You may want to meet in the middle and save travel costs by reducing the total distance.
# 8. Discuss family and friends.
Conversations about your family and friends can help you form stronger bonds. You’ll learn more about each other in the process.
Sometimes finding new topics to discuss every day can be tricky.
You already talked about your work, pets, breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
What else can you talk about and share?
The lives of friends and family can provide ample material for conversations.
You can enjoy a long-distance relationship and make it last.
But I won't lie to you.
The odds are well and truly stacked against you.
4.5 months – that's the average time before a long distance relationship breaks down.
40 % of all long distance relationships ends with a break-up.
70 % of all failed long distance relationships fail due to unplanned changes.
Long Distance Relationships Can Work. But they need special care and serious attention to survive and thrive.
#9. You must have a Common End Goal.
You need to both ask yourselves,
“What do we want to achieve at the end of the day?”
“How long are we going to be apart like this?”
“What about the future? What's in store for us both?”
If you ignore these questions, it's almost certain that your relationship is doomed.
The truth is, no couple can successfully maintain a long distance relationship for forever.
Eventually, everyone needs to settle down.
So, make a serious, written plan. Something you both understand and agree on.
Draw lines in the sand.
Do up a timeline, marking down the estimated times apart and times together, and create a laser-specific end goal.
Without being on the same page and having the same goals, heartbreak is certain.
So that even if you are not living in the same space and the same timezone, both of you are still motivated to work together in the same direction towards a happy future together.
#10. You Need to Be Brutally Honest with Each Other.
Ot it will eventually bite you on the bum. Be open and honest about any feelings of fear, insecurity, jealousy, apathy, whatsoever.
If you try to hide anything from your Filipina, that secret will sooner or later eat you up, from inside out.
Don’t try to deal with things all by yourself. Be open and honest with each other.
Let your Filipina help you and give you the support you need. it’s better to look at the problem during its initial stage than to only disclose it when it’s all too late to control.
#11. Use Technology.
Guys, email is TOTALLY Dead.
It's yesterday's technology.Todays communication is INSTANT. Apps like LINE and WeChat, WhatsApp and Skype are definitely the way to go.
#12. Video Chat Often.
Video has the power to convey emotion. And bridge the gap between you like nothing on earth.
Finally, Remember Point #9. You Absolutely Positively MUST Have An 'End Goal.' Without that, you're heading nowhere. If you're in a long distance relationship with a Filipina, I wish you all the very best.
I TOTALLY Adore My Filipina. And Love Her More Every Single Day. And thank you so much for watching.
You could have been anywhere in the world. But right now, you're here. And we appreciate that more than we can say.
Now - go make it a great day!
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